A reader wants to be supportive, but it’s just too hard to walk back into the place where a relative ended his life.

My husband's uncle died by suicide in his home six months ago. How can we tell this cousin we are uncomfortable visiting the home without causing her more grief? We want to be supportive, but it's just too hard to walk back into the place where he ended his life.

My husband’s uncle died by suicide in his home six months ago. It was a shock to the entire family. Since the funeral, we have helped to settle his affairs, including cleaning out his home to get it ready for sale.

My husband's uncle died by suicide in his home recently. His surviving daughter now wants to buy the house and use if for family gatherings. How do we tell her we don't really want to go back there?